equipping lay women live their apostolate
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equipping lay women live their apostolate *
In Everyday Life
Is Personal Service to God Important to You?
Welcome to Muriel Akahi.
Personal service to God is voluntarily offering your life to the One Who gave it to you in the first place, by living it according to His Will — so that, in everyday life, relationships, work, decisions, and initiatives, your life becomes service to God. You may call it living your lay apostolate.
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This space has been created for lay women.
The laity — or lay people — is the official technical term used to describe baptised Christians who are not ordained, that is, not a priest, deacon, or pastor.
If you were baptised in the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, you are a lay person — whether you practise your faith faithfully or not.
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Etymologically, apostolate means “one who is sent.”
It refers to the fact that Christians are called to take part in the mission of Christ.
The lay apostolate is how this mission is lived by those who are not clergy or ordained. -
The lay apostolate is lived where life already happens:
in relationships, family life, work, responsibilities, and personal initiatives — where you can shape and influence positively.
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You start where you already are. This space invites reflection on questions such as:
As a lay woman,
How do I love?
How do I work?
How do I carry authority and responsibility?
How do I use what I have to shape the world in the Name of Jesus?
Holm oak tree of apparition in Fatima
What You’ll Find in This Space
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Jesus calls His disciples to deny themselves, take up their cross and follow Him. Your baptism has made you a disciple. How can you develop the interior human capacity required to deny yourself and carry your cross?
You can learn here, in this space, through free basic life skills self-coaching resources designed specifically for this purpose.
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Find free, short, focused modules designed to support ongoing faith formation. Content includes Bible study, lifelong catechesis, and summaries of key texts on the vocation and mission of the laity in the world.
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God is the Author of marriage. When entered into and lived according to His Will, it is fruitful — not only for the couple, but for the common good. For this reason, marriage should not be entered lightly or without proper preparation, if it is to serve God. Building your personal capacity for marriage is your first step in building your house on rock.
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Professional and economic activity is an authentic expression of service to God when taken up as stewardship. Find support here to approach your daily work as service to God, and to establish enterprises that address the human needs Jesus mentioned in Matthew 25:35–36.
What Guides this Work
This work begins with a simple conviction: that lay women are called to serve God through the real, everyday life they already live — and that this calling deserves formation and a mature sense of responsibility before God.
Muriel accompanies this work, walking with women as they discern their apostolate and seek to bring it to life.
If you’re at a point in your life where you feel a strong desire to serve God — not primarily through church roles or religious activities, but through how you live, make decisions, work, relate, and take responsibility in the world on a daily basis
— this space may be for you.
Meet Muriel
Muriel Akahi is trained in theology and canon law and has over twenty years’ experience in parish ministry, faith formation, and life coaching. Her work focuses on forming Christian faith and conscience, supporting personal growth, accompanying couples in building strong and healthy relationships, and training and helping lay women live their apostolate.
Testimonials
Irina P.
“We are deeply thankful to Muriel for the role she has played in our journey towards marriage. Through her guidance in the marriage course, she helped us – Emmanuel and I – to truly appreciate the sacred meaning and lifelong commitment of the sacrament of marriage in the Church. With wisdom, compassion, and patience, she guided us to see beyond the wedding day and to prepare our hearts for the life we will share together. Her words have strengthened our faith, deepened our love, and given us the tools to build a marriage rooted in respect, understanding, and God’s grace.”
Head of Caritas Nigeria & Founder of MESH CENTRE
Rev Peter B. A.
“I have had the privilege of working with Muriel for over a decade, including her workshops at the MESH Center targeting young women, especially in their teens. I personally witnessed her remarkable ability to connect with participants, helping them bring their faith, identity, and purpose into focus. Her marriage sessions profoundly impacted participants, guiding them to respect themselves and others while fostering healthy relationships. She also introduced entrepreneurship as a practical way for disadvantaged young women to use their talents for financial independence, helping them avoid harmful sexual practices. I am deeply grateful for Muriel’s dedication to uplifting young women, her positive influence, and the life-changing guidance she provides.”
Founder of Strength of a Queen
Gladys E.
“Muriel has a rare ability to connect in a genuine and impactful way. Her support has been instrumental in helping me clarify and achieve my business goals, while her guidance leaves you feeling empowered and inspired to take action. The value she delivers is truly unmatched.”
The world needs you to carry your apostolate — this is how you bring Christ into it.
Do you ever feel a desire to do more for God
— but aren’t quite sure what or how?
Many lay women feel deeply drawn to serve God and truly wish to respond to that call, but besides church or charity roles, they don’t know what else to do to serve God.
If that’s where you are, this space is for you.
Free access for lay women who want to live their faith fully and exercise their apostolate in daily life — in work, relationships, and social and public life.
